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Quotes about character

Samuel Smiles wrote a whole book called Character in 1871, and he believed in it the way other people believe in compound interest. La Rochefoucauld, two centuries earlier, thought most virtue was vanity in a good coat.

Reading them side by side is more useful than either alone, since Smiles supplies the aim and La Rochefoucauld lists the excuses you'll make on the way.

From the books

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If a man is mistaken, instruct him kindly and show him his error.
Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, George Long translation
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If a man is mistaken, instruct him kindly and show him his error. But if thou art not able, blame thyself, or blame not even thyself.

Hypocrisy is the homage vice pays to virtue.
Francois de La Rochefoucauld, Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims, Friswell translation
Our inward thoughts gradually become influenced by our outward demeanour.
Seneca, Minor Dialogues and On Clemency, Aubrey Stewart translation
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… appearance, it is our master. Let it rather be locked in the innermost recesses of our breast, and be borne by us, not bear us: nay, let us replace all its symptoms by their opposites; let us make our countenance more composed than usual, our voice milder, our step slower. Our inward thoughts gradually become influenced by our outward demeanour. With Socrates it was a sign of anger when he lowered his voice, and became sparing of speech; it was evident at such times that he was exercising restraint over himself. His friends, consequently, used to detect him acting thus, and convict him of being angry; nor was he …

We are ready to see others made perfect, and yet we do not amend our own shortcomings.
Thomas a Kempis, The Imitation of Christ, William Benham translation
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If one who is once or twice admonished refuse to hearken, strive not with him, but commit all to God, that His will may be done and His honour be shown in His servants, for He knoweth well how to convert the evil unto good. Endeavour to be patient in bearing with other men’s faults and infirmities whatsoever they be, for thou thyself also hast many things which have need to be borne with by others. If thou canst not make thine own self what thou desireth, how shalt thou be able to fashion another to thine own liking. We are ready to see others made perfect, and yet we do not amend our own shortcomings.

A man is literally what he thinks, his character being the complete sum of all his thoughts.
James Allen, As a Man Thinketh
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THE aphorism, "As a man thinketh in his heart so is he," not only embraces the whole of a man's being, but is so comprehensive as to reach out to every condition and circumstance of his life. A man is literally what he thinks, his character being the complete sum of all his thoughts.

The conduct of our lives is the true mirror of our doctrine.
Michel de Montaigne, Essays, Charles Cotton translation
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The conduct of our lives is the true mirror of our doctrine. Zeuxidamus, to one who asked him, why the Lacedaemonians did not commit their constitutions of chivalry to writing, and deliver them to their young men to read, made answer, that it was because they would inure them to action, and not amuse them with words. With such a one, …

We wish to live for what is great, not for what is mean.
Ralph Waldo Emerson, Letters and Social Aims
The roots below the earth claim no rewards for making the branches fruitful.
Rabindranath Tagore, Stray Birds
Men do not fail commonly for want of knowledge, but for want of prudence to give wisdom the preference.
Henry David Thoreau, A Week on the Concord and Merrimack Rivers
A household cannot be governed by lying; nor can a nation.
Samuel Smiles, Character
Integrity without knowledge is weak and useless, and knowledge without integrity is dangerous and dreadful.
Samuel Johnson, Rasselas
First study; then approve; then love.
Anne Bronte, The Tenant of Wildfell Hall
Forbearance and self-control smooth the road of life, and open many ways which would otherwise remain closed.
Samuel Smiles, Character
All that seems strange to us, and that we do not understand, we condemn.
Michel de Montaigne, Essays, Charles Cotton translation
If you are sincere, people will repose trust in you.
Confucius, The Analects, James Legge translation
A great man is always willing to be little.
Ralph Waldo Emerson, Essays: First Series
Clean thoughts make clean habits.
James Allen, As a Man Thinketh
Perfect valour is to do without witnesses what one would do before all the world.
Francois de La Rochefoucauld, Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims, Friswell translation
Character calls forth character.
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, Maxims and Reflections, T. Bailey Saunders translation
Character is greater than any career.
Orison Swett Marden, Pushing to the Front
Good-will makes insight, as one finds his way to the sea by embarking on a river.
Ralph Waldo Emerson, Society and Solitude
Every opinion reacts on him who utters it.
Ralph Waldo Emerson, Essays: First Series
Character is human nature in its best form.
Samuel Smiles, Self-Help
Personal beauty soon passes; but beauty of mind and character increases in attractiveness the older it grows.
Samuel Smiles, Character
Reason deliberates before it judges; but anger passes sentence without deliberation.
Seneca, Morals of a Happy Life, Benefits, Anger and Clemency, Roger L'Estrange translation
The great thing is the education of character.
Leo Tolstoy, Anna Karenina, Constance Garnett translation
Be not virtuous beyond your powers!
Friedrich Nietzsche, Thus Spake Zarathustra, Thomas Common translation
Every man, however wise, who begins by worshipping success, must end in mere mediocrity.
G. K. Chesterton, Heretics
Say what you have to say, not what you ought.
Henry David Thoreau, Walden
We must not consider how great presents are, but in what spirit they are given.
Seneca, On Benefits, Aubrey Stewart translation
To be outspoken is easy when you do not wait to speak the complete truth.
Rabindranath Tagore, Stray Birds
Virtue is a pleasant and gay quality.
Michel de Montaigne, Essays, Charles Cotton translation
Good sense, disciplined by experience and inspired by goodness, issues in practical wisdom.
Samuel Smiles, Character
Would not every man wish to lay aside anger when he sees that it begins by injuring himself?
Seneca, Minor Dialogues and On Clemency, Aubrey Stewart translation
The really great man is a plain, straightforward, every-day, common-sense man.
Russell H. Conwell, Acres of Diamonds
Opportunity makes us known to others, but more to ourselves.
Francois de La Rochefoucauld, Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims, Friswell translation

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